Imagine that, once long ago, you bravely ran into a blazing building and saved the lives of a dozen people or so. Suffering horrific burns, you proudly wore the scars as a sacrifice of love for people who didn’t even know you. You were hailed as a great hero, and were given awards and acclaim. The people you saved decided, as a debt of gratitude, to celebrate your sacrifice on a certain day each year. They called it “The Party for our Hero.”
They would bring cake, gifts and a sincere appreciation for another year your courage and selflessness gave to them. As people moved and lives changed, this one event became the opportunity for them to reconnect through a common experience.
Over the years, though, it seems as though you have become less and less the focus. Those you saved take the occasion to get up to date on each other’s lives, to meet their children and grandchildren. Soon, those you saved become old and frail, unable to travel. Some die and pass the tradition to their offspring. The occasion becomes known as “The Hero’s Party.”
As time goes by, the decorations become more and more elaborate. The presents become the focus. People argue about the décor and compete for attention. The cake becomes the centerpiece… so much so that people even have their photos taken with it each year.
Years pass. Few people even talk to you anymore. They may say a passing “hello” as a pseudo-acknowledgement of who you are and what you did… but your heroic deed all those years ago becomes more and more irrelevant as it is lost to living memory.
Now known only as “The Party”, people with no connection to the original event are invited, and they in turn invite others. They exchange gifts with one another, admire the decorations, and – of course – pose for pictures with the magnificent cake. You are rarely approached: on two occasions, though, you are politely asked to back away from the cake, your cake, out of camera range so others can take photos. You’re not even offered a piece of cake… you end up eating the leftovers when everyone’s gone.
This year, no one even speaks to you. Here you sit, in a nearly surreal scenario: a party that was originally intended to celebrate you is now a celebration of itself. Some people look at you, whispering, with looks of disgust. How horrendous – this scarred, disfigured old cripple has no place among such festive beauty! You, like they, wonder why you’re even here. In your heart, you weep. Crowded to standing room only, you are escorted by people who have no clue who you are to another room. You consider just leaving. Leaving and never coming back. Why are you here at all?
Just then a little girl, about 8 years old, comes over to you. She takes your gnarled hand, looks you straight in the eye and says, “A long time ago you saved my Great-Grandma’s life. If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be alive today. Thank you.” She brings you a piece of cake and a drawing she made of you carrying a woman – her great-grandmother – out of a burning building.
No one else at The Party seems to know, or even care. But a tear slowly wells up in your right eye and streams down your cheek as this innocent child remembers the real reason.
December 25th is not about gifts, or decorations, or food, or togetherness. We were all doomed to burn, yet years ago someone gave His best while we were at our worst and saved us. Let us pause to remember the real reason why we celebrate the Christ Mass… or, as we have come to know it, Christmas.
Jesus of Nazareth, the Christ, the Messiah, lived a perfectly sinless 33-year life and offered Himself as a blood sacrifice to do something you can’t do: pay for your sins. Forgiveness and salvation cannot be earned: it is a gift freely given. You only need the humility in your heart to accept it. It’s as simple as that.
Have a merry and joyous Christmas – for the right reason.
– G. Lamar Wilkie